I have been noticing a lot lately how much I really struggle in this area of my life. I have been praying about it but am not sure what and how to actually go about killing this…
Do you have any ideas on what I can be reading?
What are some practical steps I can take to grow in this?
HELP!!!!!
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it’s hard to suggest something without knowing what area you are struggling with self-control in. but generally i would say accountability. specific and frequent accountability.
also, if there is a chance that you aren’t really convinced that whatever you are doing is wrong/sinful/unwise, that could undermine your efforts to be self-controlled. so, maybe studying and praying about whatever that is to understand it better and be more firmly convinced that it needs to change.